A whole person, not an age group
Age does not decide what support looks like
One older person may want half an hour of help getting ready. Another may need several visits around meals and medication. Someone else may want company after bereavement, support returning home from hospital or a care worker living in their home for an agreed period. There is no standard older person's day and there should be no standard elder-care package.
We begin with the person's own account of what is working, what has become difficult and what they still want to do for themselves. Family members and professionals can add useful information, but the older person's voice remains central wherever they can make the decision.
That principle reaches beyond personal care. A plan may need to cover the way someone likes breakfast, the armchair they use to put on shoes, the neighbour who has a spare key, the club they do not want to miss and the signs that tell people they are tired or in pain.
NICE guidance on home care for older people says care should reflect the person's aspirations, priorities and abilities, including what they can and want to do for themselves.